First days home

So, I'm sure lots of you are wondering how things are going here and all I can say is WONDERFULLY!!!!

Chelsi arrived on Friday, Jan 25th at 3:49pm. She was 6 pounds 6 ounces, and 20" long. She's a tiny little peanut.

We met her Saturday morning and then went back to pick her up Sunday night.

It was impossible to imagine what that night would be like and it was much more than we ever hoped for.

I was able to spend a few minutes with Jessie, her mom, Janet & Chelsi alone. It was heartbreaking listening to the fear in Jessie's voice as she asked to keep her baby safe always. I, of course, promised I would. What a hard, grown up loss for a young woman.

After that, we all went to a meeting room at the hospital where several of Jessie's family and a couple of her friends were waiting with our social workers. There was a beautiful ceremony with sweet words and Bible verses. Jessie, Janet & I lit a Unity candle for Chelsi and then we had a chance to share our thoughts. (And lots of tears.)

While it was very sad, it also was a very nice time. We enjoyed her family and friends very much and it seems like a great start for our open relationship. We all share a strong faith in God, and it showed in our time together.

I know lots of you want to see pictures of our dear baby girl, but I need to get Jessie's permission to share them here and on Facebook. We will be seeing her tomorrow so we will talk about it then.

Jessi and her mom are coming here for a visit and lunch tomorrow. We are looking forward to seeing them and having them see our home.

Thank you everyone for all of your prayers, messages and well wishes. It means so much to us! Kevin is so anti Facebook, but he loves for me to read your comments!!

Oh yes, Eli. He has been so great. He absolutely adores Chelsi, and helps with her all of the time. He is just so sweet with her. He's going to be the best big brother!!

God is so good.